Love is elixir of life…

(Must Read.. It Will Pull The Strings of Your Heart ♥)
Did you know?
This is a story of a couple from Phillipins, There was a girl
named Julie who used to fear falling in love because she
has seen her mother's suffering, this girl has lost her
father when she was 13 and her mother was left all alone
with his memories & Stolen Moments !! Her father used to
smoke a
lot and because of smoking he suffered from cancer and
died !
It's true no one knows destiny, this girl Julie who used to
fear love and hate smokers has fallen in love with one of
his class mate named McCoy who was a chain smoker.
she used to tell his fathers story to him every-time they
met expecting him to quit Smoking. she realized that he
has started avoiding her as his friends used to tease him
whenever he used to smoke with them. Julie wanted to see
him happy so she stopped objecting him and just
after 3 months of her relationship she realized that he is
suffering from a lung disease called emphysema caused
due to smoking.
McCoy has fallen seriously ill and his treatment started, it
continued for 2 years many times his health became so
worst that doctors also thought he will die !! But it was
Julie's love who kept him alive and recover, all these 2
years she spent all her time with him in the hospital.. she
stopped going to college.. fought with parents.. invested
all her pocket money.. and thus she defined love ..
The Boy Recovered And Has Quit Smoking !! He Has
married Julie And now they both are living together !! He
always feels guilty for not listening to Julie earlier, he now
gives one message to everyone "Do 100 things that
friends asks you to do, but please don't do at-least that
one thing that your love don't want you to do .. "
"Friends, i will not say Smoking is dangerous for health
because that is already written on the box of smoke but i
will like to tell you.. that you started smoking for yourself
now quit it for someone who loves you !!
next time when your Love or your parents ask you not to
smoke recall this True Love Story and answer yourself
that do you want them to suffer for a mistake that you
are doing today"
We SHARE so many things on Facebook, but how many of
us will share this true love story and request our friends
not to smoke ..

true love never hurts

in one of the confessions page i saw this confession… really, love is a beautiful feeling <3

Gone are those days where a girl and a boy truely loved each other, irrespective of how they looked and would actually end up marrying together and live a happy life. This was during the days where people knew what love actually meant. Relationships these days? Most of them are already aware how they are but are ashamed to admit in. A normal pair of teenagers will date each other only for one sole purpose. And that's SEX! Yes, you read it right and I know that I have your attention. When a guy says to a girl that, "I love you very much dear and i'll always be on your side", it actually translates to, "I will be with you as long as I am physically satisfied. And when I get what I want, i'll go hunting for some other girl". No, don't think that guys are only like that. Girls are also equally awesome (sarcasm intended) in that matter. Some girls even go the extent of allowing their guys to sleep with other girls, right in front of their own eyes! I even know the names of such girls but I won't takethem coz of obvious reasons. But you know what? It's not your mistake. Boys and girls arestore house of testosterone and progesterone respectively. Adult hollywood/bollywood movies, pornography, sex stories etc trigger the release of these hormones in their body which makes a teenager want to explore his/her sexuality. Generally, a guy will date a girl, girl will feel that she's got true love, guy will get physical with girl, eventually will get bored and will want someone new and hence ditch her. Girl will cry for days, for months..even for years thinking that she was used. You ask that guy why you broke up with her, he'll be like, "It didn't work out ya. She was not understanding me. She hurt me many times in the past.". Truth is, this is all BS. He'll give those reasons coz he has to maintain his name in the society. Same thing can happen with a guy as well. All this is happening soo much that it's on the verge of getting normalised. Pick any random relationship, I bet you that it'll be the same thing. Why do you think that your parents throw tantrums at you when they come to know that you are in a relationship? Why do you think your parents say that there's a correct 'age' for all this? Only and only coz of all these reasons. They have more number grey hairs on their head. They've seen the world ever since you were dependent on your mother's milk for nutrition. Ever thought of that? I am in love with someone. To make sure that it wasn't lust, I tried to fap thinking about her,not once, not twice, but quite a few number of times. But it didn't happen. I don't even feellike doing so. It's like, I can actually live my whole life without even snogging her. But, alas, she's too emotionally attached to her past and she's having a very hard time getting out of it. But it's okay, i'll continue to love her. Someone once said to me. True love never hurts. You are happy if the person you love is happy. How damn right she was! I'll always be on her side during the thick and thin times! If we are meant to be together, she will come to me one day. My sincere advice to guys and girls. Please don't ever mix up sex and pleasure with love. They are poles apart. Love has a whole different meaning. For once, try to really love someone. Trust me it's a beautiful feeling.

loved it all… till the last breath

This Guy’s Wife Got Cancer, So He Did Something Unforgettable, The Last 3 Photos Destroyed Me.

The first time photographer Angelo Merendino met Jennifer, he knew she was the one. They fell in love and got married in New York’s Central Park, surrounded by family, friends, and loved ones.

Five months later Jen was diagnosed with breast cancer. From Angelo’s blog: “I remember the exact moment…Jen’s voice and the numb feeling that enveloped me. That feeling has never left. I’ll also never forget how we looked into each other’s eyes and held each other’s hands. ‘We are together, we’ll be OK.’”

Throughout her battle, Angelo decided to photograph it. He wanted to humanize the face of cancer on the face of his wife. The photos speak for themselves.

Angelo and Jennifer’s story is tragic, but it’s in the face of a tragedy such as this that we rise above.

In Angelo’s case, he has started an organization to help women with their financial struggles during their trials with breast cancer.

Photo Credits: Angelo Merendino

2 dots for me 3 for u

that one day i realized that my sms were not only read by my gf but by her sister too. well that might not have bothered much but problem started when she started to reply to me. it was ok since i could easily guess that it was somebody else. things became complex when my mom started to reply her.

i had to encrypt. but how?

locking cell phone was not an option. it was those times when cell phones just became popular and we were teenagers. so parents used to keep an eye on us and locking phones meant marking bulls eye on back.

started off with security question.

but it didn’t work. we used to chat for hours and some times would leave phone idle. security question every time was wastage of free sms’es.

had to find out a way. learn foreign language? NO. it might not give that feel.

had to find a way. an easy way so that both of us will know its us and will be alerted as soon as somebody else is texting.

referred to some encryption books. nope. none helped.

the style…

everybody has a style. style in every thing. talking walking what ever ‘ings’ are there has a style. but that styles can just be copied. we had to encrypt a code in our styles. a secret ques. a secret ans. a secret relationship.

how did we do that?!!

-- by dots

hmm?? didn’t quite get it right?!!

its easy. see.

every time i text her, i’ll use 3 dots in succession in one of the location in any sentence of my sms. like this “hey wassup…”

and she would use 2 dots in her sms. like this “cool, wat about u..”

but u might ask, can’t it be copied? anybody who has read few previous sms can easily guess d pattern. yeah that s why we had a secret question.

way hro oeu? > decrypted > who are you?

and she would reply … well… something crazy.

and i would know its her.

it all looks silly now. but that s how it started. by dots…

love by dots <3

zor ka jhatka :P

Four friends, who hadn't seen each other in 30
years, reunited at a party.
After several drinks, one of the men had to use the
rest room. Those who remained talked about their
kids.
The first guy said, "My son is my pride and joy. He
started working at a successful company at the
bottom of the barrel. He studied Economics and
Business Administration and soon began to climb the
corporate ladder and now he's the president of the
company. He became so rich that he gave his best
friend a top of the line Mercedes for his birthday."
The second guy said, "Darn, that's terrific! My son
is also my pride and joy. He started working for a
big airline, and then went to flight school to
become a pilot. Eventually he became a partner in
the company, where he owns the majority of its
assets. He's so rich that he gave his best friend a
brand new jet for his birthday."
The third man said: "Well, that's terrific! My son
studied in the best universities and became an
engineer. Then he started his own construction
company and is now a multimillionaire. He also gave
away something very nice and expensive to his best
friend for his birthday:
A 30,000 square foot mansion."
The three friends congratulated each other just as
the fourth returned from the restroom and asked:
"What are all the congratulations for?" One of the
three said: "We were talking about the pride we feel
for the successes of our sons. ...What about your
son?"
The fourth man replied: "My son is gay and makes a
living dancing as a stripper at a nightclub."
The three friends said: "What a shame...what a
disappointment."
The fourth man replied: "No, I'm not ashamed. He's
my son and I love him. And he hasn't done too bad
either. His birthday was two weeks ago, and he
received a beautiful 30,000 square foot mansion, a
brand new jet and a top of the line Mercedes from
his three boyfriends.
They fainted!

thanks jaan…

i never knew i had it in me. a fire a passion to do something to be someone.

that day when you left me alone standing in rain, i cried. cried a lot. rain showering upon me the pain of all times. it was as if the whole universe is crying with me. it was raining cats and dogs.

i never felt such helplessness before.

powerless, lost , defeated, my everything had crashed. i cried, cried a lot that day. for you had broken my everything, my dream, my passion, my pride , my ego, my strength, my weakness, my goodness, my bad habits… you name it. that day i died.

standing there below the bridge when you turned back, were you laughing at me?

yeah, i failed. failed like never before. you took me to the top, pushed me off the cliff and never looked back.

my heart still beats for you. you will always live in my heart.

that day, when you left me. that day, i changed.

i found my goal, i found my passion, something to hold on, something special.

to guide me through the way you gave me an amazing gift.

people call it PAIN

but i call it my TEACHER